I have listened to a dialogue between two people who most certainly have very different perspectives. Their own personal maps of the world influence what they see, hear and feel. Consequently this will have a cause and effect, not always a positive one!
“Two men look out the same prison bars; one sees mud and the other stars.” Frederick Langbridge
Have you found it difficult to alter your position, be more tolerant and experience something from a different perspective? Are you a stars or mud person?
How would it feel to look at something differently, what is the worse that could happen?